The Power of the Eyes: Simple Tips to Make Your Eyes Pop and Your Portraits Land Emotionally

Eyes are the gateway to feeling in a portrait. When they’re bright, engaged, and clear, a photo moves from pretty to unforgettable. Here are easy, practical tips you can use so your eyes—and the emotion behind them—shine.

Before the Shoot

  • Get enough sleep: Tired eyes look dull. I encourage you to rest the night before.

  • Hydrate and avoid salty food: Water reduces puffiness and makes eyes look clearer.

  • Bring eye-friendly items: A small pack of saline drops, a comb for brows, and a concealer can be game-changers.

During the Session

  • Connect with a purpose: As a photographer, I may ask you a simple prompt—“Think of someone who makes you laugh” or “Remember a proud moment.” Emotional memory lights the eyes naturally.

  • Use the “soft squint” (squinch): Slightly lower your upper eyelids—just a tiny squint. It adds focus and depth without looking strained.

  • Smile with your eyes: Encourage a small smile while keeping it gentle in the face. This creates a real sparkle (Duchenne smile).

  • Look just over the lens: Having you look slightly above or just to the side of the camera creates a natural catchlight and relaxed expression.

  • Blink then hold: Blink a few times and then hold your eyes open for a beat before photographer shoots. It removes any dryness and keeps eyes fresh.

  • Use breath: Take a slow breath in and exhale—this relaxes the face and deepens the eye expression.

Styling & Makeup Tips

  • Emphasize the lashes: Mascara or a lash comb opens the eyes. For men, a groomed lash line and clean lower lashes help.

  • Brighten the inner corner: A touch of light eyeshadow or highlighter at the inner corner lifts the eye.

  • Avoid heavy lower liner: Too much dark liner underneath can make eyes look smaller or tired.

  • Keep brows tidy: Well-groomed brows frame the eyes and guide the viewer’s attention.

Lighting & Positioning (for photographers)

  • Create catchlights: Position your light or reflectors so small highlights appear in the eyes. Catchlights instantly add life.

  • Use soft light: Soft, diffused light flatters the eye area and reduces harsh shadows.

  • Angle slightly down: Shooting from a slightly higher angle opens the eyes and smooths the face.

Quick Fixes on Set

  • Have saline drops ready for redness or dryness.

  • Use a white card or reflector to bounce light into the eyes if they look flat.

  • Take a few frames at slightly different expressions—subtle changes often produce the most emotional shot.

Final Thought: “Your eyes tell your story—let them sparkle.” With small, intentional actions before and during the session, you’ll capture portraits that feel honest, moving, and unforgettable.

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Kami Schexnayder

On Location San Antonio Portrait Photographer Specializing in Senior, Family, and Professional Portraits.

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